Wednesday, July 4, 2012

Why Bilinguals Are Smarter: Think About Keeping Your Adopted Child's First Language

There may be big advantages in keeping a native language for an
older adopted child.

Speaking two languages rather than just one has obvious practical
benefits in an increasingly globalized world. But in recent
years, scientists have begun to show that the advantages of
bilingualism are even more fundamental than being able to
converse with a wider range of people. Being bilingual, it turns
out, makes you smarter. It can have a profound effect on your
brain, improving cognitive skills not related to language and
even shielding against dementia in old age.

This view of bilingualism is remarkably different from the
understanding of bilingualism through much of the 20th century.
Researchers, educators and policy makers long considered a second
language to be an interference, cognitively speaking, that
hindered a child's academic and intellectual development.

They were not wrong about the interference: there is ample
evidence that in a bilingual's brain both language systems are
active even when he is using only one language, thus creating
situations in which one system obstructs the other. But this
interference, researchers are finding out, isn't so much a
handicap as a blessing in disguise. It forces the brain to
resolve internal conflict, giving the mind a workout that
strengthens its cognitive muscles.

Bilinguals, for instance, seem to be more adept than monolinguals
at solving certain kinds of mental puzzles. Ina 2004 studyby the
psychologists Ellen Bialystok and Michelle Martin-Rhee, bilingual
and monolingual preschoolers were asked to sort blue circles and
red squares presented on a computer screen into two digital bins
- one marked with a blue square and the other marked with a red
circle.

In the first task, the children had to sort the shapes by color,
placing blue circles in the bin marked with the blue square and
red squares in the bin marked with the red circle. Both groups
did this with comparable ease. Next, the children were asked to
sort by shape, which was more challenging because it required
placing the images in a bin marked with a conflicting color. The
bilinguals were quicker at performing this task.

The collective evidence from a number of such studies suggests
that the bilingual experience improves the brain's so-called
executive function - a command system that directs the attention
processes that we use for planning, solving problems and
performing various other mentally demanding tasks. These
processes include ignoring distractions to stay focused,
switching attention willfully from one thing to another and
holding information in mind - like remembering a sequence of
directions while driving.

Why does the tussle between two simultaneously active language
systems improve these aspects of cognition? Until recently,
researchers thought the bilingual advantage stemmed primarily
from an ability forinhibitionthat was honed by the exercise of
suppressing one language system: this suppression, it was
thought, would help train the bilingual mind to ignore
distractions in other contexts. But that explanation increasingly
appears to be inadequate, since studies have shown that
bilinguals perform better than monolinguals even at tasks that do
not require inhibition, like threading a line through an
ascending series of numbers scattered randomly on a page.

The key difference between bilinguals and monolinguals may be
more basic: a heightened ability to monitor the environment.
"Bilinguals have to switch languages quite often - you may talk
to your father in one language and to your mother in another
language," says Albert Costa, a researcher at the University of
Pompeu Fabra in Spain. "It requires keeping track of changes
around you in the same way that we monitor our surroundings when
driving." In a study comparing German-Italian bilinguals with
Italian monolinguals on monitoring tasks, Mr. Costa and his
colleagues found that the bilingual subjects not only performed
better, but they also did so with less activity in parts of the
brain involved in monitoring, indicating that they were more
efficient at it.

The bilingual experience appears to influence the brain from
infancy to old age (and there is reason to believe that it may
also apply to those who learn a second language later in life).

Ina 2009 study led by Agnes Kovacsof the International School for
Advanced Studies in Trieste, Italy, 7-month-old babies exposed to
two languages from birth were compared with peers raised with one
language. In an initial set of trials, the infants were presented
with an audio cue and then shown a puppet on one side of a
screen. Both infant groups learned to look at that side of the
screen in anticipation of the puppet. But in a later set of
trials, when the puppet began appearing on the opposite side of
the screen, the babies exposed to a bilingual environment quickly
learned to switch their anticipatory gaze in the new direction
while the other babies did not.

Bilingualism's effects also extend into the twilight years. In a
recent study of 44 elderly Spanish-English bilinguals, scientists
led by the neuropsychologist Tamar Gollan of the University of
California, San Diego, found that individuals with a higher
degree of bilingualism - measured through a comparative
evaluation of proficiency in each language - were more resistant
than others to the onset of dementia and other symptoms of
Alzheimer's disease: the higher the degree of bilingualism, the
later the age of onset.

Nobody ever doubted the power of language. But who would have
imagined that the words we hear and the sentences we speak might
be leaving such a deep imprint?

Yudhijit Bhattacharjee is a staff writer at Science. Reprinted
from the NY Times

If you or someone you love, want to welcome a child into their
lives and families, as my husband and I did, Adoption Services
International can help.

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Adoption Services International: What Our Clients Say About Us

Our adoption process has been and is a complicated journey for
our family but we were so grateful for Susan to be so quick to
offer her assistance when everyone else ignored our cries for
help because of the nature of our extraordinary case. Susan's
assistance has been above and beyond all expectations! Susan has
been quick and concise in devising a plan, offering insight, and
was there professionally as well as personally. Her personal
touches and vast experience with the Ukraine/Russian culture
proved to be comforting and trustworthy. Susan was always an
email, phone or Skype call away and blew me away by personally
meeting me during my layover at Newark airport, introducing me to
her son, which shows her obvious passion for wanting to assist
other families in adopting internationally in Ukraine. She
showed genuine interest and was kept us up to date on all details
at all times. I highly recommend Susan and her professional team
to assist any family in their adoption journey. Liz Atchley

Please contact us if you or someone you love, want to welcome a
child into their lives and families, as my husband and I did,
Adoption Services International can help.

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Ukrainian Adoption Statistics From 2011

Statistics are out on the numbers of adoptions in Ukraine. More
and more Ukrainian families are adopting. Still, the total of
3078 is far below what is needed. Most orphanages have hundreds
of children each in need of loving homes.

It will be interesting to see how these statistics change since
the new law enacted at the end of 2011, permitting foreign
families to adopt healthy children 5 years old and up.

Total Adoptions: 3,078

National Adoptions: 2,109

Breakdown of national adoptions by age of child:Under 1 year: 844

1-2 years: 645

3-5 years: 419

6-10 years 167

11-17 years: 34

International Adoptions: 969

Breakdown of international adoptions by age of child:

Under 1 year: 13

1-2 years: 103

3-5 years: 172

6-10 years: 412

11-17 years: 269

According to Ruslan Maliuta, the President of the Alliance for
Ukraine Without Orphans, the adoption statistics for Ukraine in
2011 were:

If you or someone you love want to welcome a child into their
lives and families, as my husband and I did, we can help.

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Integrating An Adoptive Child's Culture Into Your Family

Whether your child hails from Rhode Island or Russia, or is of
Asian or African-American or Latin-American descent, odds are,
his heritage is different from yours. You know that your child
needs to understand where he comes from to build a strong sense
of self, but it's often hard to figure out exactly how to do this
-- and how to walk that line between "too much" and "not enough."
While culture camps and heritage tours can help kids feel proud
of their history, these activities are the proverbial icing on
the cake; your child will build pride in his heritage based on
his family's everyday attitude toward it. How do you mix your
child's background into your family's life? Here's how to get
started:Make connections with other adoptees.Whether through a
culture camp, a playgroup, or a dance class, it helps to bring
your child together with other kids who share his life
experiences. "It doesn't matter what the activity is -- they
could be knitting together," says Deborah Johnson, a social
worker and director of Kindred Journeys International, a heritage
tour company, and a Korean adoptee. "It helps them to see kids
who have the same questions they do, and whose families look like
theirs." For many children adopted transracially or
transculturally, finding a place to "fit in" is hard, but regular
meetings with others like them will help. [Find a listing of
camps, tours, and other heritage events at
adoptivefamilies.com/calendar.]Make cultural activities a normal
part of life.Cultural activities shouldn't be reserved for
holidays or special events. "It may feel forced at first, but you
need to make culture a part of the fabric of your daily life,"
says Johnson. There are many ways to do this -- put ethnic dishes
on your weekly menu, display artwork or crafts that you purchased
or photos you took on your adoption trip, watch movies and TV
shows that include characters who share your child's background,
or have your child play with dolls and toys that reflect her
heritage.Most children go through a phase when they want to deny
their heritage -- they want no reminders that they're
"different." Often, this phase comes during the late
elementary-school years, when teasing and cliques begin, and
"being like everyone else" is the key to popularity. Continue to
make your child's heritage an active aspect of her life by saying
it is a "family" thing -- "Our family always goes to culture
camp," or "Our family always eats at Ethiopian restaurants on
special occasions." But don't force it. "I think you have to be
in tune with your kid on the too-much or not-enough issue," says
Pam Sweetser, director of Colorado Heritage Camps. "My daughter
doesn't want to go to Korea, but she likes her Korean friends
from the camp. If I had forced her to do more, she would have
rebelled against her culture."Explore the current culture."Many
families focus on dressing up and eating traditional foods,"
Johnson says. "Don't fall into the trap of just talking about
what life was like there -- talk about what's going on in the
culture now, or the American version of the culture." Find ways
to connect the culture to your kid's personal passions. "Take
what your child is interested in -- music, movies, fashion, food
-- and use that to introduce the culture," Johnson says. "If he
loves movies, show him Bollywood movies, or take him to an
African-American film festival. Take an artistic kid to a gallery
that's exhibiting a contemporary artist who shares her heritage."
And remember: Your child won't be living in Africa or Asia, so he
needs to understand what it means to be African-American or
Asian-American.Blend a family culture.While cultural education is
valuable, sometimes parents can be too passionate about
connecting their child to his or her heritage. If your child's
schedule is filled with cultural activities and classes, you may
need to add a little variety to the mix. "Some people go too far,
and it starts to displace everything else," Johnson says. "It's
important, but you need to customize it to your child's needs and
interests."Along with teaching your child about his own
background, you should celebrate the customs from his birth
culture alongside the traditions you cherish from your own
heritage. "Just as we have integrated African-American culture
into our lives, we have also expected our children to embrace the
parts of our cultures that we hold dear," says domestic adoptive
mom Gaby Johnson, who writes the "Familia Means Family" blog on
adoptivefamiliescircle.com. "For example, my children speak both
English and Spanish, because their mother is Hispanic, and they
attend a mostly white church, because their father is the
pastor." By teaching children to respect and value different
cultures in the world, you can help your children -- and
yourselves -- to become more compassionate world citizens.Lisa
MilbrandIf you are considering adoption, please contact us at
908-444-0999,info@asi-adoption.com or check us out online
atwww.adoptionservicesinternational.

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Adoption Through Your Child's Eyes: Speaking With Adopted Children About Adoption at Different Ages

Adoptive children see and understand adoption very differently at
different ages. Often they appear to understand much more than
they actually do. Below is a link to a great article outlineing
the different ways children comprehend and deal with their
adopted status from preschoolers through
teenagers.http://adoptivefamilies.com/articles/643/age-by-age-talking-to-kids-about-adoptionIf
you are considering adoption, please reach out to us at Adoption
Services International. We handle Ukrainian adoptions for parents
in the US. We can be reached atinfo@asi-adoption.comor
908-444-0999. For more information and helpful articles, please
check out our web site atwww.adoptionservicesinternational.com.

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Preparing Your Adopted Child To Come Home With You

Preparing Children for AdoptionObviously, how you prepare a child
depends a lot on the child's age. For newborn adoptions, all you
can do is be as responsive as possible to the baby's need once
he's in your home.You can do more to help prepare older kids
being adopted either domestically through foster care or from
abroad. It is hard to prepare a child for the total destruction
of what they have thought of as being permanent. The child's (and
parent's) temperament plays a huge role in how they handle this
huge change. Some kids will go with the flow regardless of the
presence or absence of preparation, and some will be thrown for a
complete loop. No matter what temperament, try to help prepare
your child.In an ideal world, the social worker, foster parents,
and orphanage workers/caretakers would play an active role in
preparing the kids. While that may happen often here in the US,
it is still the exception in most foreign countries.Preparing the
Adopted Child Before you Bring them HomeSpend time with the child
in person in his environment if possible. (This is one of the
great things about adopting in Ulraine. You will have time to
spend with your child in their enviroment which allows a smoother
transition.) This will likely be required if you are adopting an
older child in the US. Even if you are adopting internationally,
if you can afford the extra trip and if it is allowed in the
country from which you are adopting, go ahead of time to meet and
hang out with your child in his environment.Make Skype video
calls if possibleIntroduce family membersIntroduce petsTake tour
of the house by carrying the computer from room to room.If your
child is being adopted from another country, if possible, hire an
English tutor to start giving her language lessons.Parents should
learn simple phrases in child's language. For example;Are you
hungry?I will take care of you.Do you need to use the
bathroom?Show me.Watch me.I love you.Time to go to bed.Stop,
please.Ask child to send pictures she has drawn and put them on
the refrigerator for them to see when they get home.Send letters
regularly to the child.Send a note to the child's foster parent
or caretaker letting her know something about you, and how
excited you are to meet the child and have her become a part of
your family. Thank the caretaker for all they are doing for your
child. Consider asking the following:Begin to call you mom and
dadIf you are changing the name, maybe hyphenate the old name
with the new name. Make sure you include how to pronounce the new
name.Send care packages, which can include:Laminated pictures for
the child to carry around (family, child's room,
pantry/refrigerator, pets)Photo book - translate ahead of
timeVideo of family and home, if orphanage or foster family has
ability to playBlanket-wash it and let mom or primary caregiver
sleep with it so that it picks up her scent.Stuffed animalDrawing
from siblingsPreparing the Child When you Meet Her:Make minimal
changes at first.Take baby steps-move at child's pace-let the
child lead.Don't change food immediately, although may want to
start introducing American food slowly if adopting from abroad
and if the child is willing.Let them wear their old clothes if
they want to.Bring a small gift, but don't shower them with
toys.If your child is old enough, give them an inexpensive camera
to take pictures of what and who is important to them.Let child
say good bye properly to their old life.Assume the child has not
received your care package. Bring the same things you put in
it.When you gain custody of the child, establish a bed time
routine. Start by following the routine the child has had, if you
know it. Decide if it's in everyone's best interest to start
introducing a new routine.Bring photos/videos from home.Have an
entrustment/transfer ceremony with those who have been important
in your child's life.Adapted from Creating a Family blogIf you
are considering adoption, please contact us
at908-444-0999,info@asi-adoption.com or check us out online at
www.adoptionservicesinternational.

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Sunday, July 1, 2012

Adoption Through Your Child's Eyes: Speaking With Adopted Children About Adoption at Different Ages

Adoptive children see and understand adoption very differently at
different ages. Often they appear to understand much more than
they actually do. Below is a link to a great article outlineing
the different ways children comprehend and deal with their
adopted status from preschoolers through teenagers.

http://adoptivefamilies.com/articles/643/age-by-age-talking-to-kids-about-adoption

If you are considering adoption, please reach out to us at
Adoption Services International. We handle Ukrainian adoptions
for parents in the US. We can be reached
atinfo@asi-adoption.comor 908-444-0999. For more information and
helpful articles, please check out our web site
atwww.adoptionservicesinternational.com.

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