Monday, February 25, 2013

Adopted Ukrainian Boy Shot to Death in US: What Does This Mean For US-Ukrainian Adoptions?

Last Friday, Voice of Russia published an article after
discovering that an adopted boy they thought was from Russia, was
adopted from Ukraine. The boy was shot by his older adopted
father when he was teaching the 13 year old how to use a gun.
This event occurred in June 2011. The Voice of Russia, Russia's
government media, broke the news under the sensational headline:
"Ukrainians outraged as US dad shoots adopted Ukrainian boy".

Before we react with worry and concern over the future of
Ukraine's international adoption program, it is important to read
the entire article. There are several things that come across
markedly in this article:

1. The Russian correspondent is much more worked up about this
event than the Ukrainian correspondent. Even with leading
questions, there is no anti-American or anti-international
adoption language or inference from the Ukrainian correspondent.

2. The father was jailed for the act and is still in jail. One of
the things that Russia pointed to and used to convince that
closing Russian adoptions to Americans was a good idea, is that
many of the cases of abuse or death of children adopted from
Russia had been either not prosecuted in the US, or the
perpetrators received what the Russian government considered
extremely light sentences. The Russians made the argument that
crimes against Russian adopted children in the US were not being
punished.

The Ukrainian correspondent markedly contrasts the situation with
Ukrainian foreign adoptions to that in Russia. He says, "unlike
in Russia, there is no adoption scandal in Ukraine." He states
that "among the Ukrainians there is a strong perception that
adopted kids have more chances for a better life out there in
foreign countries". And finally, when the Russian tries to get
him to voice how outraged the Ukrainian public and government is
about this event, he states "we are all aware that it is not like
in the US they are targeting Ukrainian or Russian adopted kids
only. You know, one child dies every three hours from gun
violence in the US. It is just horrible for the Americans and for
the Ukrainians here also."

Correct, the death of a child is horrible for all peoples. Thank
goodness, unlike Russia, Ukraine is not using this tragedy as a
diplomatic and political lever.

It seems the only ones trying to stir up outrage are the
Russians.

Here is the article: Ukrainians outraged as US dad shoots adopted
Ukrainian boy

Voice of Russia:

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. Russian Embassy in
the US received a new signal earlier but it says that the
13-year-old, who was shot in the head by his adoptive father in
West Virginia, is not registered with the Russia's consulate.
Following an inquiry Russian diplomats determined that the victim
was actually adopted from the Ukrainian city of Donetsk. Now the
Ukrainian Embassy and the US Department of State have been
informed about this incident right away.

For more on this incident we are now joined with the Voice of
Russia correspondent in the Ukrainian capital of Kiev, and this
is Maxim Eristavi.

Maxim, thank you very much for joining me and welcome to the
program. So, please, give us the latest details on this case and
whether there was any reaction whatsoever from the Ukrainian
Embassy in Washington?

Hi guys! As you said we've become aware of this tragedy from the
Russian diplomats doing their investigation into the matter of
the American adopted kids from Russia. They've found out about a
murdered 13-year-old teen from Ukraine. Andrew Arthur Butler was
his name and originally he is from Donetsk. An old American
couple from Hedzhsvill West Virginia adopted him and his adoptive
father was 73 years at the moment of the incident.

So, what we know now? In June 2011 this adoptive American father
shot and killed the boy. It happened when he was trying to teach
the kid how to use a gun. And later the father admitted his
partial guilt but insisted that this was an unintentional murder.
Anyway, he has been in jail since then.

I see. Did we hear anything from the Ukrainian Embassy? Are
they looking into this issue? Have they contacted the police? Do
we know anything about that?

For now this news is just developing on newswires and there is no
official reaction from the Ukrainian officials, we don't have
this just yet. And of course you know this tragedy is horrifying,
but however, unlike in Russia, there is no adoption scandal in
Ukraine. The rate of foreign adoption here is three times smaller
than in Russia and only 10 000 adopted Ukrainian kids live in the
US.

Surely there is no way that local officials can track the fate of
already adopted kids by foreigners and the representatives of
presidential administration officially admitted this I guess a
couple of days ago. But among the Ukrainians there is a strong
perception that adopted kids have more chances for a better life
out there in foreign countries because truly speaking the state
of local orphanage system is just horrible and kids are in a
constant state of malnutrition, I'm not even speaking about
dissent closed education or of psychological comfort.

Absolutely! Maxim, you are absolutely right, the story is
just developing, it is early morning right now in Washington and
we are well into our afternoon here in Europe. But I'm sure there
is a reaction with the public, some kind of an outrage because
people must have heard about this already in Kiev. Have you heard
anything? Are people saying anything about this already?

You know, it is just the same that I told you right now. So, I'm
looking into the comments under the news and what people are
saying in the social media. Of course there is an outrage. And
every death of every child is just horrible, but we are all aware
that it is not like in the US they are targeting Ukrainian or
Russian adopted kids only. You know, one child dies every three
hours from gun violence in the US. It is just horrible for the
Americans and for the Ukrainians here also.

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Wednesday, February 20, 2013

Event: Annual Russian Festival in San Fran! Bring Your Ukrainian Adopted Children! - Feb 22-24


2/22-2/24: RUSSIAN FESTIVAL 2013!!!!!! (lower pac hts)

The Popular Annual Russian Festival in San FranciscoTo be held
at the RUSSIAN CENTER

2460 Sutter St @ DivisaderoFebruary 22,23,24!!!!!Three days of Live
Entertainment, Food,

Dance,Art exhibit and souveniers for sale:

Popular Russian Dancers, Musicians,

Singers,Gymnastics .

Great Russian Foods. AND!!!!!!!!!

A Vodka tasting booth for tasting different vodka's

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Fun for the whole family..meet and make knew friends..



Open all day each day

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Adoption Services International has extensive experience making
the process as smooth as possible, from the very beginning of
your decision to adopt, through bringing your adopted child home
to the US. Adoption Services International unites loving US
families with Ukrainian children. We provide a unique
professional, individualized, quality (including a maximum
guaranteed adoption fee), personal adoption experience, at
affordable cost and 20 years Ukrainian experience.


If you or someone you love would like to expand your family,
provide a permanent home for a needy orphaned child, welcome a
sibling for an existing child or discover an alternative for
infertility treatments - contact us to learn more about Ukrainian
adoption, Adoption Services International can help.


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Sunday, February 17, 2013

Event: Cleveland Russian Festival Summer 2013: Perfect For Ukrainian Adoptive Families - Jul 26-28

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Mark Your Calendars: The Cleveland Russian Festival Summer 2013

Wonderful family opportunity to share your adopted child's
culture

The Russian American Cultural Society of Cleveland will sponsor
renowned professional musical ensembleBarynyaat the 3rd annual
Cleveland Russian Festival in the summer of 2013.

The Festival is held on the scenic grounds of St. Sergius Russian
Orthodox Cathedral in Parma, Ohio. The 2013 festival will be held
the 26th through the 28th of July.

At the 2012 Festival we sponsored theGolden Gates Dance
Troupefrom St. Petersburg, Russia.

Read about the 1st festival from 2011 at the Congress of Russian
Americans.

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Ukrainian children. We provide a unique combination of
professional, individualized, quality service (including a
maximum guaranteed adoption fee), personal adoption experience,
affordable cost and 20 years Ukrainian experience.

If you or someone you love would like to expand your family,
provide a permanent home for a needy orphaned child, welcome a
sibling for an existing child or discover an alternative for
infertility treatments-contact us to learn more about Ukrainian
adoption, Adoption Services International can help.

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Saturday, February 16, 2013

Why Ukrainian Adoption? Older Parents are Welcome

Many international programs are placing stricter age limits on
parents wishing to adopt. For many programs parents cannot be
more than a certain number of years older than the child they
wish to adopt. This can eliminate lots of older parents. It is
more difficult for older parents to adopt domestically as well.

There is no upper limitation at all as to the age of the adopting
parent in Ukraine. It is still important to the Ukrainian
authorities that the parents be healthy and expect to live to a
normal life expectancy.

Older parents bring a lot of advantages and it is great that
Ukraine does not in any way discriminate based on age.

This week we want to bring you a fact a day about Adoption in
Ukraine to help educate and create awareness of the opportunity
to adopt one of the 25,0000 Ukrainian children available for
international adoption.

ADOPTION SERVICES INTERNATIONAL

Adoption Services International has extensive experience making
the process as smooth as possible, from the very beginning of
your decision to adopt, through bringing your adopted child home
to the US. Adoption Services International unites loving US
families with Ukrainian children. We provide a unique
professional, individualized, quality (including a maximum
guaranteed adoption fee), personal adoption experience, at
affordable cost and 20 years Ukrainian experience.


If you or someone you love would like to expand your family,
provide a permanent home for a needy orphaned child, welcome a
sibling for an existing child or discover an alternative for
infertility treatments - contact us to learn more about Ukrainian
adoption, Adoption Services International can help.


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Friday, February 15, 2013

Event: Russian Culture And Traditions Day For Ukrainian and Russian Adoptive Families - Mar 10 @ 1:00pm

Hillwood Museum Russian Roots Family Day - Washington DC



Hillwood is pleased to welcome families formed through adoption
at our Russian Roots Family Day on Sunday, March 10, 1-4 pm.





Become royalty for the day as you discover Russian culture and
traditions from the past, connect with other families, and create
your own imperial treasures. Arrive at 1 pm to gather with
families for a welcome with Russian treats. Embark on a quest for
Russian treasures in the new special exhibition in Hillwood's
Dacha, explore exquisite Russian art in the Mansion, and engage
in a family art project to create a treasure of your own to take
home.



Our annual Russian Roots Family program is held in March this
year to coincide with the special exhibition, Pageant of the
Tsars: The Romanov Coronation Albums (open February 16-June 8).
Explore the exhibition, celebrate the 400th anniversary of the
founding of the Romanov dynasty, and experience the pomp and
pageantry that marked the grand coronations of Russia's
illustrious ruling family.



E-publications on iPads throughout the exhibition allow you to
page digitally through the albums and immerse yourself in the
details of the illustrations. Exquisite imperial treasures from
Hillwood's renowned Russian art collection and other private
lenders further explore the Romanov's lasting influence on
Russian art and culture with crystal goblets, jeweled badges,
lavish menus, and majestic portraits.



For families formed through adoption with children of all ages
from Russia and neighboring countries.



Tickets are $15 for adults, $8 for Hillwood members, $5 for
children ages 6-18, and free for children under 6.*

For more information, or to register, call 202.686.5807 or
purchase tickets online.



*Because we want everyone to be able to participate in this
family program, pricing should not be a barrier. If you have any
concerns, please contact us.

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Adoption Services International has extensive experience making
the process as smooth as possible, from the very beginning of
your decision to adopt, through bringing your adopted child home
to the US. Adoption Services International unites loving US
families with Ukrainian children. We provide a unique
professional, individualized, quality (including a maximum
guaranteed adoption fee), personal adoption experience, at
affordable cost and 20 years Ukrainian experience.


If you or someone you love would like to expand your family,
provide a permanent home for a needy orphaned child, welcome a
sibling for an existing child or discover an alternative for
infertility treatments - contact us to learn more about Ukrainian
adoption, Adoption Services International can help.


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Thursday, March 14, 6:00-8:00 PM


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Ukrainian Adoption Officials Discuss Ratification of the Hague Adoption Convention

Ukraine has discussed and considered legistlation to ratify the
Hague Adoption Convention for over 5 years. We are unsure of its
chances this time around. It is scheduled for debate this summer.
We are working to determine what this would mean operationally
for international adoptions in Ukraine. Right now, it is unclear,
but in every other country that has ratified the convention
adoption costs increased significantly. This is mostly due to
more steps, documentation and basically bureaucracy. Let's all
hope nothing changes.

This is the article published 2.14.12 in the Kyiv Post

Ratification of the Ukrainian Convention on the Protection of
Children and Cooperation with Respect to Inter-Country Adoption
(Hague Adoption Convention) will give an opportunity to gain a
real control over the destiny of the children adopted by the
foreigners, a government official has said.

"I'm sure that all of the resources there were in Ukraine to
monitor what happens to children adopted by foreign citizens
have already been exhausted. Ukraine can't gain anything in a
unilateral way anymore," Presidential Commissioner for
Children's Rights Yuriy Pavlenko said during a roundtable held
by the Verkhovna Rada Committee on family, youth policy, sport
and tourism in Kyiv on Wednesday.

According to him, the introduction of amendments to the Family
Code "will mean there's a possibility have a proper controls
over what happens to a child that is adopted after the
convention is ratified and comes into force."

Pavlenko said that the convention would allow eliminate any
illegal and intermediary work in Ukraine regarding inter-state
adoption.

ADOPTION SERVICES INTERNATIONAL

Adoption Services International has extensive experience making
the process as smooth as possible, from the very beginning of
your decision to adopt, through bringing your adopted child
home to the US. Adoption Services International unites loving
US families with Ukrainian children. We provide a unique
professional, individualized, quality (including a maximum
guaranteed adoption fee), personal adoption experience, at
affordable cost and 20 years Ukrainian experience.


If you or someone you love would like to expand your family,
provide a permanent home for a needy orphaned child, welcome a
sibling for an existing child or discover an alternative for
infertility treatments - contact us to learn more about
Ukrainian adoption, Adoption Services International can help.


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Thursday, February 14, 2013

Why Adopt From Ukraine: Ukrainian Adoption Takes Months Not Years

Why Adopt From Ukraine: Ukrainian Adoption Takes Months Not Years

Currently China is granting referrals to parents who submitted
their documentation in late 2006! Child services in New Jersey
said the wait for a young Caucasian child is about 7 years.
Private agencies tell parents they are looking at the same time
frame for domestic adoption.

A painfully long process and waiting period is one of the many
reasons of the 70% of the US population that considers adoption,
less than 3% actually adopt.

Of course, every adoption is different and some take a lot
shorter or longer than expected. When adopting from Ukraine, with
a little organization and a lot of help from a great adoption
advisor, you can feel fairly confident that you will complete
your adoption within a year of starting the process. That means
before even starting your home study document gathering stage to
bringing your child home to the US.

At Adoption Services International, we have completed adoptions
in under 8 months. So, you may be able to bring your newly
adopted child home faster than if you gave birth.

This week we want to bring you a fact a day about Adoption in
Ukraine to help educate and create awareness of the opportunity
to adopt one of the 25,0000 Ukrainian children available for
international adoption.

Contact us for more information:

ADOPTION SERVICES INTERNATIONAL

Adoption Services International has extensive experience making
the process as smooth as possible, from the very beginning of
your decision to adopt, through bringing your adopted child home
to the US. Adoption Services International unites loving US
families with Ukrainian children. We provide a unique
professional, individualized, quality (including a maximum
guaranteed adoption fee), personal adoption experience, at
affordable cost and 20 years Ukrainian experience.


If you or someone you love would like to expand your family,
provide a permanent home for a needy orphaned child, welcome a
sibling for an existing child or discover an alternative for
infertility treatments - contact us to learn more about Ukrainian
adoption, Adoption Services International can help.


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Russians Adopting Just For the Money?

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Adoption in Russia: It is great that Russia is trying to simplify
the adotion process. But I am concerned that the proposal to pay
adoptive parents $3315 if they adopt children with disabilities,
brother and sister pairs, and children over seven.




Since the average salary is so low and rates of poverty are so
high, I worry that a lot of families may see only 3315 reasons to
adopt and not the most important reason of really wanting a child
forever.



Last year Russian adoptive parents returned over 8000 adopted
children to their orphanages. Something needs to be done to
insure children are not just adopted for the one time
payment.



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MOSCOW, February 12 - RAPSI. The Russian
government has approved a bill drafted by the Ministry of
Education and Science to stimulate adoption in Russia, the
governments press service said.

The ministry has proposed that a one-time payment of up to
100,000 rubles ($3,315) be approved for the adoptive parents
of children with disabilities, brother and sister pairs, and
children over seven.

The bill is to be submitted to the State Duma by March 1,
2013. The law could apply to as many as 100,000 orphans.
Furthermore, the proposal includes simplifying the adoption
procedure, in particular to extend the interim custody of
orphans to six months. The procedure for collecting the
necessary information would also be simplified, and the
validity period of some medical certificates would be
extended.

Orphans again became the subject of public discussion after
the Dima Yakovlev law passed and came into force on January
1. The bill bans the US adoption of Russian children and was
approved in response to the Magnitsky Act. It was
unofficially named in memory of Dima Yakovlev, the
two-year-old Russian boy who died after his US adoptive
father left him in the car for nine hours, as well as in
memory of all Russian children who were killed or abused by
their adoptive families in the US.

While commenting on the ban, the Russian authorities also
appealed for adoption process improvements at home.



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ADOPTION SERVICES INTERNATIONAL

Adoption Services International has extensive experience making
the process as smooth as possible, from the very beginning of
your decision to adopt, through bringing your adopted child home
to the US. Adoption Services International unites loving US
families with Ukrainian children. We provide a unique
professional, individualized, quality (including a maximum
guaranteed adoption fee), personal adoption experience, at
affordable cost and 20 years Ukrainian experience.


If you or someone you love would like to expand your family,
provide a permanent home for a needy orphaned child, welcome a
sibling for an existing child or discover an alternative for
infertility treatments - contact us to learn more about Ukrainian
adoption, Adoption Services International can help.


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Monday, February 11, 2013

Strategies for Navigating the Journey to Attach with Your Ukrainian AdoptedChild












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Confessions of a Mom with Attachment
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February 01,2013 / Dawn Choate


Maybe I should have left my name off this one. Perhaps I
could have been one of the anonymous writers who change
their name to protect their identity. I will probably
open my inbox to find I've been booted off a Yahoo
adoption group or two after this confession. I'm sure I
won't be invited to the next LifeBook creation group or
called up by the Discovery Channel to cover my next
adoption. But, I'm not really confessing this to win any
popularity contests anyway. The truth is, I am quite
certain that what I am about to confess is a dark, deeply
held secret of other adoptive parents out there and I am
just the one with the big enough mouth to say it. Okay,
here I go.

I have attachment
issues
.

Yes, me. Not my daughter (our second adoption), although
she has her own set of attachment issues, too. But I am
talking about me. After a year and a half, my heart still
struggles to latch on firmly, to feel free and open with
her, to feel the wonderful bonded feeling of being
completely attached in heart and spirit to another
person. I still catch myself looking blankly at her,
wondering if I even know her yet. I am still more easily
frustrated by her, less patient, slower to forgive and
recover after she misbehaves. I still have to fight
feelings of wanting to pay more attention to the children
with whom it is easier to feel close. And sometimes I am
the one who can go without contact with her and not feel
like I even miss her absence.

Before you lynch me, before you throw me to the Yahoo
group trash bin, before you black list my name to every
agency on planet earth and turn me in to Dr. Phil and his
evil message boards.

Let me leave you with some thoughts just in case this
strange phenomenon ever lurks its way into your adoption
fantasy and threatens to turn it into a nightmare.

Why Adoptive Parents Face Difficulties in
Bonding

There are many reasons an adoptive parent may experience
difficulty in bonding with their new child. Post-adoption
depression is actually a term used now by many therapists
and experts in the field. Below are some possible reasons
a parent might struggle with bonding:


  • Unresolved grief over a previous child-related issue
    (such as miscarriages, inability to conceive, previous
    adoptions that fell through or previous difficulties with
    an adoption)

  • Previous experiences with attachment issues with an
    adopted child

  • Adopting an older child who no longer exhibits the
    natural baby/toddler development stages that promote
    bonding with a parent

  • Adopting out of birth order (this can make navigating
    the baby of the family developmental stage tricky)

  • Attachment issues in the child that cause the parent
    to feel rejected

  • Inability to communicate adequately with the child
    (language difficulties, speech issues, special needs
    issues)

This is, of course, only a partial list of the myriad of
possible reasons a parent may feel that block that
prevents the free-flow of emotion from parent to child.
It is a list that we could mark off multiple items that
relate to our experience. When we adopted our daughter,
she was 3.5 years old. While she still had much of the
baby look to her rounded cheeks and pixie face, her
behaviors were not in any way like a baby. When I tried
to follow the advice of re-parenting her (treating the
new child like a baby in certain ways), it only became a
source of frustration for us both. She would bite the
bottles or pacifiers until she chewed them off, she would
regress and wet her pants since she thought that was what
I wanted her to do (behave like her little sister), and
all the effort didn't produce any real feelings of change
in either one of us because she seemed to grasp that she
was really not a baby and didn't particularly
want to be treated like one.

Another issue we faced was that it was an
out-of-birth-order adoption. Although there are many
successful cases of this type of adoption and we do not
regret having done it ourselves, it certainly presented
us with challenges. Our younger daughter still needed to
be babied in some ways, and it was tough to make sure
that our new daughter was receiving the amount of
attention she needed. In addition, you really can't trick
your mind into seeing a child who is not the baby as a
baby. We were learning firsthand how those critical baby
years form that soft foundation of bonding before you
have to face the more difficult toddler years with a
child. Yet we had missed all of that with her and were
thrown head-first into the tougher toddler years.

Communication was also a great hurdle for us as our
daughter came to us not only as an older child who had
learned over 3 years of Mandarin, but as a child with
cleft lip and palate that severely impaired her ability
to speak at all. Once again, I was startled to realize
something we take for granted in parenting other children
that is such a vital key to successful bonding was
missing in our relationship with her. Even now, if you
ask her why she is crying, she can rarely answer you. All
you get is, Um..um..I'm crying! Language and
communication are the cornerstones of relationships and
it is very tough to find alternate ways of communicating
with a child who is impaired in a way that truly brings
understanding and the ability to form bonds and
attachments.

Perhaps the most critical key to understanding my
struggle to bond to my daughter, however, is to
understand the struggle we had to get our first daughter
to attach to us and how that struggle impacted
and scarred my parental psyche. Over time, I have learned
and recognized that the awesome weight I bore in the
journey to help our first daughter through her struggles
left me far more emotionally exhausted and wounded than I
had realized at the time we completed our second
adoption. After all, Hannah was doing great by the time
we adopted again and was getting better everyday. The
battle was over (for the most part) and now our new
daughter was quiet, gentle and much easier to care for
than Hannah had been. How could I not be okay and bond
instantly with her?

Yet when the first crying jags started, even though they
were not nearly as wild and uncontrollable as had been
Hannah's, I found myself holding my new daughter up by
her shoulders as she wailed and shrieked, looking her
straight in the eyes, and pleading with her, I'M NOT
GOING TO DO THIS AGAIN!!! I CAN'T DO THIS AGAIN!!! Red
flags should go off at that point. Someone with a
megaphone might as well have been screaming at me,
SECONDARY POST-TRAUMATIC SYNDROME!!! Of course, I had no
idea what that even was at the time. It took a few late
nights of internet searching before I recognized it
several months after it began to surface. My heart had
been greatly wounded before, and now my emotions and
spirit were struggling to bear up under another child's
journey through grief.

Strategies for Navigating the Journey to Attach
with Your Child

After months of agonizing over the lack of attachment I
felt towards my daughter, we slowly began to piece
together some strategies that we hoped would eventually
build the necessary bonds between us. Over time, we
noticed small changes that eventually led to even more
significant changes. Though the process is slow, the
effort and energy we have expended has always eventually
paid off. Here are some of the strategies we used that
have contributed to the growing bonds between us:



  1. If your child is out of birth order, separate
    time out specifically for that child away from the
    children who are younger.
    Find an activity
    that suits the new child's age and personality and make
    it a special event between you. For example, my
    daughter is very domestic (unlike her wild,
    Harley-riding sister). So, when I bake an apple pie
    (okay, this is a rare activity), I bring her alongside
    of me to help instead of Hannah (distracting Hannah by
    telling her she can go swing from the trees with her
    brothers, an activity she would prefer anyway).


  2. Do not feel like you have to follow all of the
    tips of re-parenting if you adopt an older
    child.
    When we tried many of the suggestions
    (giving a bottle, pacifier, etc.), we found it just
    frustrated us and did not build any connections with
    her. Those methods may work well with some children,
    but our daughter did not respond to them, so we had to
    move on and treat her like the age that she is instead
    of trying to regress her. She was happier when we did
    and we found connections with her easier when we did
    not try to treat her like something she wasn't.


  3. Work hard to find skills, personality traits,
    and talents unique to your new child
    . We tried
    many things until we discovered what a great swimmer
    our new daughter was. So we spent extra time developing
    that in her, praising her for that skill, and used the
    time in the water as a way to attach to her. Some of my
    best interactions with her and most affectionate times
    are in the water.


  4. Give yourself permission to not have
    to feel all gushy about your new child.
    It is
    okay if it is not a fairytale. It does not make you a
    bad parent or evil. It is what it is. Many days I told
    myself that I was just going to be a good babysitter
    that day and gave myself permission to not have to
    force myself to feel anything else.


  5. Work through any unresolved emotional issues
    you may have that are blocking your ability to
    bond.
    If you have issues of grief, resentment
    of previous failed adoptions or attempts to bond, or
    secondary post-traumatic issues, it can really impede
    your ability to connect with a new child. Get help if
    necessary.


  6. Find at least one person other than your spouse
    that you can be completely honest with about your
    struggles
    . You might need to air some
    feelings that can cause some to judge you. But if you
    don't have at least one safe, outside place to vent,
    the pressure can build and cause further damage to your
    relationship with your child.

Finally, and perhaps most importantly, no matter how you
feel, no matter what your emotions tell you, after all is
said and done and you have done everything you can to
change your feelings.just keep moving forward anyway.
This may sound simple, trite or ignorant of your needs. I
certainly stress the need for you to have time away, time
for yourself and time to vent to others. But in the midst
of all that, there are many days you have to just realize
that you made a choice to bring this child in and
whatever you do or do not feel towards that child, love
is a choice.

Choosing to love your child mentally even when you do not
feel it emotionally is a powerful step in the journey to
bonding with your child. The rewards for that choice may
not surface immediately. The process may be very slow and
lacking in immediate gratification. But every day that my
daughter laughs a full belly laugh instead of a weak
giggle, every time she spontaneously comes to me with
arms open for a kiss and says, I love you, Mommy, every
time she comes running to see me when I return home with
a giant yell, MOMMY'S HOOOOME!!!, I realize that though
the journey is long, we will get there. Though I have
doubted at times, I know it is true. What you reap, you
will sow and one day I know there will be a bountiful
harvest in my relationship with my daughter.

This is not an adoption that was microwavable. I could
not create insta-attachment for her or for me. No, this
is a relationship that is in a long, long simmer. Every
once in awhile I get a whiff of what it will eventually
be. I cannot wait to taste it fully, but until then, I
will keep kissing her good-night, brushing her long,
beautiful hair, biting my tongue when I'm frustrated, and
hugging her just as fully as I do my other children.
She's worth the wait. I hope she thinks I am, too.

P.S. I intentionally left my daughter's name out of
this article. It may sound silly as I'm sure I've used
her name in other articles. But I felt I at least owed
her a little privacy in this particular article
considering the candor with which I am expressing our
struggles.

Dawn G. Choate and her
husband are the parents of 5 children, including 2 born
in China and 1 in Guatemala . A writer, speaker and
advocate for adoption-related issues, Dawn is the founder
of Healing Hannah
Ministries
Please visit "www.youtube.com/user/fisherdawn">www.youtube.com/user/fisherdawn
to view the Healing Hannah videos. Dawn is a frequent
contributor to "http://voicesofadoption.rainbowkids.com">Voices
of Adoption

ADOPTION SERVICES INTERNATIONAL

Adoption Services International has extensive experience making
the process as smooth as possible, from the very beginning of
your decision to adopt, through bringing your adopted child home
to the US. Adoption Services International unites loving US
families with Ukrainian children. We provide a unique
professional, individualized, quality (including a maximum
guaranteed adoption fee), personal adoption experience, at
affordable cost and 20 years Ukrainian experience.


If you or someone you love would like to expand your family,
provide a permanent home for a needy orphaned child, welcome a
sibling for an existing child or discover an alternative for
infertility treatments - contact us to learn more about Ukrainian
adoption, Adoption Services International can help.


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Upcoming
Events:


Free Presentation: International Adoption From
Ukraine


Tuesday, February 12, 6:00-9:00 PM


Bernardsville Public Library, 1 Anderson Hill Road,
Bernardsville, NJ 07924




The Ukrainian Adoption Process: Free Informational
Meeting


Thursday, March 14, 6:00-8:00 PM


Location: Wellness Rocks: 133 Rupell Road, Clinton, New Jersey

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Event: Ukrainian Adoption Annual Soyuzivka Reunion July 19-21 2013 - Jun 19-21

Each year parents who have adopted children from Ukraine get
together with their families and other adoptive families. There
are traditional arts and crafts and hikes and dinners. There is a
massive pool and all sorts of sports.

This year it is July 19-21, 2013 at

Soyuzivka Heritage Center

845 - 626-
5641

Fax 845 - 626 - 4638
"line-height: 19px;">e-mail: "mailto:Soyuzivka@aol.com" title="mailto:Soyuzivka@aol.com"
class="style_3">Soyuzivka@aol.com

The price is not yet fixed but includes accomodation, activities
and dinners.

ADOPTION SERVICES INTERNATIONAL

Adoption Services International has extensive experience making
the process as smooth as possible, from the very beginning of
your decision to adopt, through bringing your adopted child home
to the US. Adoption Services International unites loving US
families with Ukrainian children. We provide a unique
professional, individualized, quality (including a maximum
guaranteed adoption fee), personal adoption experience, at
affordable cost and 20 years Ukrainian experience.


If you or someone you love would like to expand your family,
provide a permanent home for a needy orphaned child, welcome a
sibling for an existing child or discover an alternative for
infertility treatments - contact us to learn more about Ukrainian
adoption, Adoption Services International can help.


"http://www.adoptionservicesinternational.com/">www.adoptionservicesinternational.com


"mailto:info@asi-adoption.com">info@asi-adoption.com


908-444-0999


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Upcoming
Events:


Free Presentation: International Adoption From
Ukraine


Tuesday, February 12, 6:00-9:00 PM


Bernardsville Public Library, 1 Anderson Hill Road,
Bernardsville, NJ 07924




The Ukrainian Adoption Process: Free Informational
Meeting


Thursday, March 14, 6:00-8:00 PM


Location: Wellness Rocks: 133 Rupell Road, Clinton, New Jersey

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Event: Soyuzivka Annual Ukrainian Cultural Festival July 12-14! - Jul 12-14

Mark your calendars! This is an amazing event to take your
adopted children to. Great food and entertainment!

http://www.soyuzivka.com/About_Soyuzivka.html

ADOPTION SERVICES INTERNATIONAL

Adoption Services International has extensive experience making
the process as smooth as possible, from the very beginning of
your decision to adopt, through bringing your adopted child home
to the US. Adoption Services International unites loving US
families with Ukrainian children. We provide a unique
professional, individualized, quality (including a maximum
guaranteed adoption fee), personal adoption experience, at
affordable cost and 20 years Ukrainian experience.


If you or someone you love would like to expand your family,
provide a permanent home for a needy orphaned child, welcome a
sibling for an existing child or discover an alternative for
infertility treatments - contact us to learn more about Ukrainian
adoption, Adoption Services International can help.


"http://www.adoptionservicesinternational.com/">www.adoptionservicesinternational.com


"mailto:info@asi-adoption.com">info@asi-adoption.com


908-444-0999


"https://www.facebook.com/ASI.Adoption">https://www.facebook.com/ASI.Adoption


Upcoming
Events:


Free Presentation: International Adoption From
Ukraine


Tuesday, February 12, 6:00-9:00 PM


Bernardsville Public Library, 1 Anderson Hill Road,
Bernardsville, NJ 07924




The Ukrainian Adoption Process: Free Informational
Meeting


Thursday, March 14, 6:00-8:00 PM


Location: Wellness Rocks: 133 Rupell Road, Clinton, New Jersey

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Event: Spring Consignment Sale: Children's Clothing Sale - Mar 28-30











March 28-30


EDISON


Public
Sale


Thursday - 3/28 - 9am - 8pm


Friday - 3/29 - 9am - 7pm


It's time to cleanout the closets andcash-in selling what
yourkids haveoutgrown.

Sell and earn60-75%! Shop saveup to 90% offretailprices!


KidzsignmentsSpring ConsignmentEvents


HALF PRICE
SALE


Saturday - 3/30 - 10am - 6pm

(most items 1/2 off Saturday)


NJ Expo Center


(Raritan Center)

97 Sunfield Avenue

Edison, NJ 08837

ADOPTION SERVICES INTERNATIONAL

Adoption Services International has extensive experience making
the process as smooth as possible, from the very beginning of
your decision to adopt, through bringing your adopted child home
to the US. Adoption Services International unites loving US
families with Ukrainian children. We provide a unique
professional, individualized, quality (including a maximum
guaranteed adoption fee), personal adoption experience, at
affordable cost and 20 years Ukrainian experience.


If you or someone you love would like to expand your family,
provide a permanent home for a needy orphaned child, welcome a
sibling for an existing child or discover an alternative for
infertility treatments - contact us to learn more about Ukrainian
adoption, Adoption Services International can help.


"http://www.adoptionservicesinternational.com/">www.adoptionservicesinternational.com


"mailto:info@asi-adoption.com">info@asi-adoption.com


908-444-0999


"https://www.facebook.com/ASI.Adoption">https://www.facebook.com/ASI.Adoption


Upcoming
Events:


Free Presentation: International Adoption From
Ukraine


Tuesday, February 12, 6:00-9:00 PM


Bernardsville Public Library, 1 Anderson Hill Road,
Bernardsville, NJ 07924




The Ukrainian Adoption Process: Free Informational
Meeting


Thursday, March 14, 6:00-8:00 PM


Location: Wellness Rocks: 133 Rupell Road, Clinton, New Jersey

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Event: Huge Consignment Clothing Sale For Your Growing Adopted Child! - Mar 14 @ 8:00am


Get great deals on clothing and toys for children of most
ages!




March 14-16


FLEMINGTON


It's time to cleanout the closets andcash-in selling what
yourkids haveoutgrown.

Sell and earn60-75%! Shop saveup to 90% offretailprices!


KidzsignmentsSpring ConsignmentEvents


Public
Sale


Thursday - 3/14 - 9am - 8pm


Friday - 3/15 - 9am - 7pm


HALF PRICE
SALE


Saturday - 3/16 - 10am - 6pm

(most items 1/2 off Saturday)


76 Reaville Avenue

(next to McDonalds)



Flemington, NJ 08822


"http://www.NJKidSale.com">www.NJKidSale.com

ADOPTION SERVICES INTERNATIONAL

Adoption Services International has extensive experience making
the process as smooth as possible, from the very beginning of
your decision to adopt, through bringing your adopted child home
to the US. Adoption Services International unites loving US
families with Ukrainian children. We provide a unique
professional, individualized, quality (including a maximum
guaranteed adoption fee), personal adoption experience, at
affordable cost and 20 years Ukrainian experience.


If you or someone you love would like to expand your family,
provide a permanent home for a needy orphaned child, welcome a
sibling for an existing child or discover an alternative for
infertility treatments - contact us to learn more about Ukrainian
adoption, Adoption Services International can help.


"http://www.adoptionservicesinternational.com/">www.adoptionservicesinternational.com


"mailto:info@asi-adoption.com">info@asi-adoption.com


908-444-0999


"https://www.facebook.com/ASI.Adoption">https://www.facebook.com/ASI.Adoption


Upcoming
Events:


Free Presentation: International Adoption From
Ukraine


Tuesday, February 12, 6:00-9:00 PM


Bernardsville Public Library, 1 Anderson Hill Road,
Bernardsville, NJ 07924




The Ukrainian Adoption Process: Free Informational
Meeting


Thursday, March 14, 6:00-8:00 PM


Location: Wellness Rocks: 133 Rupell Road, Clinton, New Jersey



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Friday, February 8, 2013

Event: FB Contest: Win Free Unlimite WiFi and Our Amazing Ukrainian Adoption Travel Guide - Feb 8-22

Adopting or considering adopting from Ukraine?

ASI is giving away their Packing and Travel Guide for Ukrainian
Adoption and a grand prize of unlimited WIFi in Ukraine.

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ADOPTION SERVICES INTERNATIONAL

Adoption Services International has extensive experience making
the process as smooth as possible, from the very beginning of
your decision to adopt, through bringing your adopted child home
to the US. Adoption Services International unites loving US
families with Ukrainian children. We provide a unique
professional, individualized, quality (including a maximum
guaranteed adoption fee), personal adoption experience, at
affordable cost and 20 years Ukrainian experience.


If you or someone you love would like to expand your family,
provide a permanent home for a needy orphaned child, welcome a
sibling for an existing child or discover an alternative for
infertility treatments - contact us to learn more about Ukrainian
adoption, Adoption Services International can help.


"http://www.adoptionservicesinternational.com/">www.adoptionservicesinternational.com


"mailto:info@asi-adoption.com">info@asi-adoption.com


908-444-0999


"https://www.facebook.com/ASI.Adoption">https://www.facebook.com/ASI.Adoption


Upcoming
Events:


Free Presentation: International Adoption From
Ukraine


Tuesday, February 12, 6:00-9:00 PM


Bernardsville Public Library, 1 Anderson Hill Road,
Bernardsville, NJ 07924




The Ukrainian Adoption Process: Free Informational
Meeting


Thursday, March 14, 6:00-8:00 PM


Location: Wellness Rocks: 133 Rupell Road, Clinton, New Jersey

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Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Event: Free Adoption Presentation Brings Adoption Experts Together - Feb 12 @ 7:00pm

Adoption Informational Panel Educates Local
Communities

Have you ever considered adoption? Have you felt overwhelmed with
questions and not know where to start? This program is for you!

Learn about different types of adoptions-domestic, international,
private and agency-from a panel of experts.


  • Attorney Douglas Pine will moderate, joined by


  • Susan Kibler of Adoption Services International,


  • Adoption coach Kathy Vervan Bugglin of Self Reflection
    Coaching,


  • Julie Ritsema of Bethany Christian Services, and


  • Kristi Dawicki from the Division of Child Protection &
    Permanency (formerly DYFS).

The discussion will provide valuable information for anyone
considering adoption, with lots of time to answer your questions.

February 12, 1013

7:00 - 9:00 pm

Bernardsville Public Library: 1 Anderson Hill Road Bernardsville,
NJ 07924

Tel: 908-766-0118

Free.

Advance sign-up is requested.

The sign-up link is: "http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/SLJ9KZ6">http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/SLJ9KZ6

ADOPTION SERVICES INTERNATIONAL

Adoption Services International has extensive experience making
the process as smooth as possible, from the very beginning of
your decision to adopt, through bringing your adopted child home
to the US. Adoption Services International unites loving US
families with Ukrainian children. We provide a unique
professional, individualized, quality (including a maximum
guaranteed adoption fee), personal adoption experience, at
affordable cost and 20 years Ukrainian experience.


If you or someone you love would like to expand your family,
provide a permanent home for a needy orphaned child, welcome a
sibling for an existing child or discover an alternative for
infertility treatments - contact us to learn more about Ukrainian
adoption, Adoption Services International can help.


"http://www.adoptionservicesinternational.com/">www.adoptionservicesinternational.com


"mailto:info@asi-adoption.com">info@asi-adoption.com


908-444-0999


"https://www.facebook.com/ASI.Adoption">https://www.facebook.com/ASI.Adoption


Upcoming
Events:


Free Presentation: International Adoption From
Ukraine


Tuesday, February 12, 6:00-9:00 PM


Bernardsville Public Library, 1 Anderson Hill Road,
Bernardsville, NJ 07924


The Ukrainian Adoption Process: Saving Time, Money and
Emotional Energy


Thursday, March 14, 6:00-8:00 PM


Location: Wellness Rocks: 133 Rupell Road, Clinton, New Jersey

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Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Event: Russian Festival in San Francisco Feb. 22-24 - Feb 22-24



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2013 Russian Festival | Pacific Heights


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Take a trip to Russia without leaving the Bay Area. Come to
the 25th annual Russian Festival, a celebration of
Russian-American food, dance, music, and art, February 22-24,
2013.

Highlights of the Festival include:

* Musical performances, including the folk ensemble
Limpopo


* Delicious Russian food and infused
vodka

* Dance and gymnastics performances

FESTIVAL HOURS:

Friday, 2/22- 5:30pm-9:30pm; Dance Party - 9:30pm-12:30am

Saturday, 2/23- 11am-10pm

Sunday, 2/24- 11am-7:15pm

$10


2460 Sutter St., San Francisco, CA



ADOPTION SERVICES INTERNATIONAL

Adoption Services International has extensive experience
making the process as smooth as possible, from the very
beginning of your decision to adopt, through bringing your
adopted child home to the US. Adoption Services International
unites loving US families with Ukrainian children. We provide
a unique professional, individualized, quality (including a
maximum guaranteed adoption fee), personal adoption
experience, at affordable cost and 20 years Ukrainian
experience.


If you or someone you love would like to expand your family,
provide a permanent home for a needy orphaned child, welcome
a sibling for an existing child or discover an alternative
for infertility treatments - contact us to learn more about
Ukrainian adoption, Adoption Services International can help.


"http://www.adoptionservicesinternational.com/">www.adoptionservicesinternational.com


"mailto:info@asi-adoption.com">info@asi-adoption.com


908-444-0999


"https://www.facebook.com/ASI.Adoption">https://www.facebook.com/ASI.Adoption


Upcoming
Events:


Free Presentation: International Adoption From
Ukraine


Tuesday, February 12, 6:00-9:00 PM


Bernardsville Public Library, 1 Anderson Hill Road,
Bernardsville, NJ 07924




The Ukrainian Adoption Process: Free Informational
Meeting


Thursday, March 14, 6:00-8:00 PM


Location: Wellness Rocks: 133 Rupell Road, Clinton, New
Jersey


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Sunday, February 3, 2013

Event: National Chocolate Festival in Lviv, Ukraine! - Feb 14-17


"font-size: medium;">VI
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holiday of the country, will take place in
Lviv!


Do you dream about sweet weekend? Welcome to Lviv in
Valentine's Day! From 14th to 17th of
February in Lviv Art Palace (17, Kopernyka Str.) an extraordinary
and brilliant performance
? VI City Chocolate
Festival will take place. In those days the city invites all
sweet tooth to taste the best variety of chocolate sweets. After
all at the festival the record for the number of represented
types of chocolate and chocolate products will be once again
beaten.


A separate area where the biggest chocolate festival in the
world EuroChocolate Festival in Perugia will present itself will
be the highlight of the festival. All chocolate lovers can enjoy
the most delicious Italian sweets in Lviv at Chocolate
Festival.


During four days visitors of "chocolate action" will be
able to visit the presentation fair of chocolate products of best
representatives of this industry, participate in master classes
from professional chocolatiers, enjoy chocolate handmade stuff
that will be presented by the best confectionery shops of Lviv
and all Ukraine, witness the creation of about fifty unique
sculptures from huge blocks of chocolate, visit the show of
chocolate dresses at participation of Ukrainian designers

- ChocoFashion, and join various chocolate workshops. The
sweetest holiday gives the sweetest impressions!


Also this year all comers will be treated by a huge creamy
chocolate "multistory" cake! It will taste amazing!


At Lviv Chocolate Festival true masters will open to you
the ancient recipes of cooking chocolate and allow to spy on the
technology of its production. In the hands of Lviv artists
chocolate will come to life and turn into a fairy-tale
characters, miniature of Lviv buildings and figures of famous
people.


And for the youngest visitors every day Children Chocolate
Country will work. There will be the art workshop where children
will be able to create chocolate sculptures and drawings by hand.
For them great workshops, during which candy and cakes from
paper, balls and great houses of chocolate, crackers, various
powders will be created, will also take place. The entertainment
program will become memorable for the youngest participants
of
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Festival.


Festival every year gets new components. So, this year you
will be able to enjoy even more delicious chocolate, fun,
exciting contests, concerts and demonstration
performances.


It is special love for chocolate in Lviv. It is eaten,
drunk, presented, proud of, enjoyed with, admired with,
fantasized with, gone to the guests with, proposed in love with,
made a serious life decisions with, produced a variety of shapes
with. And at
"short_text" lang="en">National
Chocolate Festival you will make sure of that.


Real chocolate wonders only at VI "result_box" class="short_text" lang="en"> "hps">National Lviv Chocolate Festival!


Organizer: "Dik-Art" Company.


Holiday attractions and detailed program on the
website:
"http://shokolad.lviv.ua/">shokolad.lviv.ua.

ADOPTION SERVICES INTERNATIONAL

Adoption Services International has extensive experience making
the process as smooth as possible, from the very beginning of
your decision to adopt, through bringing your adopted child home
to the US. Adoption Services International unites loving US
families with Ukrainian children. We provide a unique
professional, individualized, quality (including a maximum
guaranteed adoption fee), personal adoption experience, at
affordable cost and 20 years Ukrainian experience.


If you or someone you love would like to expand your family,
provide a permanent home for a needy orphaned child, welcome a
sibling for an existing child or discover an alternative for
infertility treatments - contact us to learn more about Ukrainian
adoption, Adoption Services International can help.


"http://www.adoptionservicesinternational.com/">www.adoptionservicesinternational.com


"mailto:info@asi-adoption.com">info@asi-adoption.com


908-444-0999


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Upcoming
Events:


Opportunities and Challenges of Ukrainian Adoption: Free
Informational Presentation


Monday, February 4, 6:00-8:00 PM


Healthy U Fitness Studio, Bishop's Plaza, 431 Route 22 East,
Whitehouse, New Jersey, 08889


Free Presentation: International Adoption From
Ukraine


Tuesday, February 12, 6:00-9:00 PM


Bernardsville Public Library, 1 Anderson Hill Road,
Bernardsville, NJ 07924




The Ukrainian Adoption Process: Free Informational
Meeting


Thursday, March 14, 6:00-8:00 PM


Location: Wellness Rocks: 133 Rupell Road, Clinton, New Jersey

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